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Post by Lizzy on Mon 15 Jul 2013 - 10:33

:Mad I am horrified by the way some people treat their children!!

My brother's girlfriend's sister has a little girl a few months older than Lyla, She's just turned 3.
Friday night my brother and his GF went out to a birthday party at a local bar that they work at and met up with the mother of Lyla's friend there.  So they ask where is M, she's at home sick with the flu. So who's looking after her?
A young guy that they hardly know (he has a history of drug use) and a 10 year old girl.

So boetie's GF goes to the house to check up on M cos her sister is getting horribly drunk and dancing around on the bar counter, this is at about midnight.  She gets to the house and M is in tears, she's really not feeling well and just wants her mom! She has a slight fever and a stuffy nose and she cant sleep. (obviously young guy and 10yr old don't know what to do) The mother of M works day shift, so she gets home around 6pm, quick shower and she was out of the door by 7... leaving sick little M to fend for herself :confused :Mad 

The poor child was hysterical! Boetie's GF put her back into bed and gave her some panado and lay down with her trying to calm her down.
Spent an hour with her, eventually leaving with the promise that she will bring her mommy home....
She goes back to the bar, this around 1am and tries to convince her sister to go back home to her sick child....
Her sister gets upset that she is telling her what to do and punches boeties GF in the face, busts her lip open, and leaves with her boyfriend!

apparently she only got home to her little girl around 5am!!!:Mad :Mad :Mad 

I know it's none of my business, but I have been feeling so bad for M, i know when my LO is not well she needs love and comfort and someone there to make her feel better..... my heart breaks for this poor child.....
I am so angry that this woman left her babygirl in that state to go out partying!!  I might seem like an old fuddy duddy, but this is just not right!:Mad :Mad :Mad
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Post by Tanja on Mon 15 Jul 2013 - 11:07

Sjoe that is not right.
Sounds like something my brother and his wife will do.
That child deserved better.
If I were your boeties GF I would tell his that I will try and adopt the LG.
Shame this is terrible.
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Post by Lizzy on Mon 15 Jul 2013 - 11:17

it's been on my mind the whole weekend..... i feel i can cry for this poor child....
I told boetie's girlfriend if this happens again she must just bring the child to my house!
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Post by Adele S on Mon 15 Jul 2013 - 12:55

Faceplam for people like that
I have no words

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Post by Lilly on Mon 15 Jul 2013 - 14:37

some people should not be allowed to have children.!
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Post by Joleen on Wed 17 Jul 2013 - 10:54

Evil or Very Mad This is terrible. This poor little girl. Well you know where this mother's priorities are - not with her child!!!
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Post by Alleycat on Fri 19 Jul 2013 - 6:32

Dit maak my sommer moerig so vroeg in die oggend op 'n lee maag. I really do not understand people Reaction 
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