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Post by Sash on Thu 23 May 2013 - 7:49

M was invited to a party on Saturday of a new friend she made in GrR. I haven't met the girls' parents yet and the party is at the Spur. Now my question is, do I tag along or leave her there? I don't feel comfortable leaving her there as I don't know the parents and the mom didn't mention anything about mom's joining in the invite?
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Post by Adele S on Thu 23 May 2013 - 7:52

I would tag-along. 6 is small (well for me it is). You can also take someone with and just sit somewhere else in the Spur. It is not as if you are expecting the Mother to pay for any of your food and drinks. For peace of mind, I would go

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Post by LilianJ on Thu 23 May 2013 - 8:18

I would also tag along. Get me some coffee and just watch them Smile
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Post by Sash on Thu 23 May 2013 - 8:38

That's what I was thinking too. Just thought I'm a bit over protective. Thanx ladies
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Post by Tanja on Thu 23 May 2013 - 9:00

I agree with the girls.
I would also go along and have a nice breakfast and watch them play.
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Post by Lilly on Thu 23 May 2013 - 9:11

another reason why I am glad we live in a small town, I know all the Gr R parents but in the City, I would get a friend and tag along and sit in another corner
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Post by Alleycat on Thu 23 May 2013 - 9:29

Tag along, jy kan altyd iewers by jou eie tafeltjie sit
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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Sash on Thu 23 May 2013 - 9:35

Problem is all my friends have kids of their own....I can't exactly let them join and crash the party.... blink
Maybe it's time to spent some quality time with MIL.... whistle
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Post by elleznom on Thu 23 May 2013 - 14:15

I'd go along and if other parents are there, sit with the big group (obviously the parents will pay their own bill) or else take a book and sit in a corner, have a nice lunch, but know you are there to keep an eye. I'd definitely not leave her...

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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Sash on Mon 27 May 2013 - 12:58

So....it was a drop and run and I was the only mom that stayed! I called DH and he and E joined me for lunch.

Good thing I had some time to spend with the mom......let's just say M wont be visiting her new friend.....like ever! No No I only needed about 5mins to realise that... I'm glad I didn't just leave her like the other moms, over protective maybe, but rather save than sorry!
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Post by Tanja on Mon 27 May 2013 - 13:01

Glad you enjoyed the lunch with DH.

Don't you like the parents of the child who's party is was?
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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Sash on Mon 27 May 2013 - 13:54

I got a bad feeling.....die ma was die vrydag aand uit saam die girls.....na some club in Jhb......die pa het by sy 'tjommies' oorkant die pad gaan bier drink en die 2 dogtertjies alleen gelos by die huis. Dis wat die ouer sussie my vertel....letwel, sy is net 18 maande ouer...
En toe die koek gesny word, een van daai met die barbie pop in die middle en die koek is die rok....reken dieselfde sussie hulle moenie die rok eet nie dan gaan almal haar 'tiete' sien.........nou kyk, as M so praat voor enige iemand sal sy nie gou kan sit nie....sy leer dit obviously by die huis, en die ma het nie juis gedink om haar aan te spreek nie.
Die pa het daar eenkant gesit en my hoendervleis gegee.....not in a good way!!
Ek is seker bevooroordeeld, maar my gut is selde verkeerd en in die geval sę my gut 'stay away'!
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Post by elleznom on Mon 27 May 2013 - 13:58

Dude, run!

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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Tanja on Mon 27 May 2013 - 14:01

Ja nee Sash daar stem ek saam jou, STAY AWAY!!!.
Sjoe dit is scary daai hoor.
Sal ook nie my kind wil bloot stel aan sulke slegte maniere nie.

Hoe kan die ouers dit oor hulle harte kry om sulke klein kinders alleen te los by die huis terwyl hulle gaan "Jol".
Of wag klink soos my broer en sy vrou.
Hulle sal so iets doen fight

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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Adele S on Tue 28 May 2013 - 5:32

lol, hoe lag ek nou vir die tiete deel alhoewel dit nie snaaks is as mens dink aan die kind se ouderdom ens nie.
Die res van jou storie - Eeeeek!

Good thing you went along.

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Re: 6-year old's Spur party...

Post by Sash on Tue 28 May 2013 - 6:05

Adele, ek het actually ook gesit en lag toe ek dit hoor, maar meer oor ek gedink het die ma gaan nou freak, toe doen sy nie...!
Ek worry eintlik meer oor wat behind the scene aangaan, as dit die public face is!

O, en hulle bly in 'n buurt waar daar soos in erge misdaad is! Gewapende roof, moord, inbrake, en dis net van 3 mense wat ek persoonlik ken wat daar bly! Hoe kan ouers hul kinders (dogtertjies!!) alleen by die huis los?!
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Post by Adele S on Tue 28 May 2013 - 6:47

Ja dit is skokkend hoe hulle die kinders alleen kan los. Ek kan nie glo dat mense so is nie en wat dink hulle om dit te doen in die eerste plek? En die arme arme kinders ly daaronder.

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