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Post by FrenchAudrey on Mon 2 Apr 2012 - 16:24

Hi Everyone,

I'm new here... May be I'm coming a bit too late, we have decided this weekend with my DH to stop trying. We've been married 7 years and trying for 6. And that was our "decision" on our anniversary... Not the best way to celebrate 7 years together.

I think it might be a decision which will only last for a while, but right now, I've shed enough tears. So, I thought I would join OPM to "support" me in our decision.

I'm sure it will be nice to meet you all.

Audrey
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Post by elleznom on Mon 2 Apr 2012 - 17:46

Hi and welcome. I am so sorry for the path you find yourself on. Good luck ahead. Enjoy OPM.
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Post by Kerryw on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 6:14

Good luck with yoru decision it is a hard one.
I was not strong enough to make that decision
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Post by Alleycat on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 6:29

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Post by emerald on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 6:32

Welcome. Hope you will find all the support you need here. Many of us here have battled a very long time before getting our hearts desires and some of us are still going through it, so we understand.

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Post by LilianJ on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 7:42

Hi and welcome to the OPM family!!!!!

I am sorry that your TTC path has ended. But know that we will be here for you for support.

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Post by kajol on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 7:45

Hi,

Welcome and hope ur stay is valuable.
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Post by Anel on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 8:08

Welcome

I trust that you will make friends with alot of ladies here.

Enjoy your stay here! And this is not just while you are trying to conceive (TTC) or not to, it is also for when you are preggo and even a mommy.
You will get alot of support, no matter what your struggle is.
All the best with your journey.
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Post by Mandri on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 8:26

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Post by Tanja on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 10:17

Hi and Welcomegroup .
Good luck with your decision.
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Post by michmac on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 13:06

Hi and welcome Hi there . Hope you enjoy the forum!!
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Post by Lameez on Tue 3 Apr 2012 - 13:33

Welcome and I am really sorry for your tough journey, most of us here have been through some really tough times and we here to support and comfort each other. Let me congratulate you on your anniversary.
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Post by FrenchAudrey on Wed 11 Apr 2012 - 7:43

Ladies, Thank you very much for your comments!

I am not South African, I am from France, married to an amazing SA man... But even after many years here, I can't say I have true friends. I have many people I get on well with, but no one I can really *REALLY* call a friend... And so, I sometimes flet that "I was alone in this situation"... I'm not sure if we are all similar, but from the moment we start struggling to fall pregnant, we feel like it is ONLY happening to us.... And here I found this website. Many posts i have read gave me tears, because suddenly, I found woman who felt the very same as I did. And in a weird way, it feels good... It feels good to know that I am not alone, and all the sadeness, anger, depression, jealousy, and all those other feeling are kind of normal...

So again, thanks ladies for having me amongst you all.

Lots of hugs,
Audrey
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Post by Lameez on Wed 11 Apr 2012 - 9:19

It's always good when you find a place where you belong, where people understand you and most important of all when they give advice they know how you are feeling.
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Post by Alleycat on Wed 11 Apr 2012 - 9:40

I do remember that first time when I found the support forums. That sense of not being alone does do something on the inside. Seems like you having a really bad day.

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Post by Karien on Wed 11 Apr 2012 - 9:51

Welcome to the forum! Whereabouts do you stay?

I think that infertility is one of the most difficult things to deal with, as it is really only other people going through it who really understand how you feel.
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Post by Sheryl on Wed 11 Apr 2012 - 13:29

Welcome Audrey. You will get alot of support here.
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