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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 6:47

Wave ladies

Well, I have had so much problems. Me and my husband have been trying for a baby for 13 months now, and still no BFP. My heart is broken. Crying or Very sad I am just about ready to give up. I found out yesterday that my husband's cousin's wife is pregnant, and Im happy for her, but I just felt like my heart was torn out. Bawl Eyes Out

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Post by DJMommy on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 6:59

Hi Valley and welcome! I hope you find the support that you need from us. The TTC journey is a difficult and emotional journey. Are you seeing a fertility specialist?

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Post by Thully on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:09

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Post by Cmom on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:21

Hi Valley and welcome!

Good Luck on your TTC journey it can be emotional though, just hang in there there is allot of support here!
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:31

Hi ladies!! I am so happy to get a reply!!! :flower:

Im not seeing a fertility specialist, but went for a laparoscopy last year, and all came out normal, but my cervix, He said, was almost closed so he had to open it? Weird? :scratch:

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Post by Kim on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:43

See ya Welcome to OPM
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:46

Thank you KP!!!!! Thank you

I am feeling so much better. This morning I tested, result was a great big BFN And my AFwitch2 has not yet arrived today. Usually she comes early in the morning, but nothing now. Not even pains?

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Post by Natasha on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 7:55

See ya and Welcomegroup valley.
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Post by Dooi on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 8:25

:Welcome3: girlie, hope your stay will be sweet and short! And get that BFP soon, just hang in there, it will happen one of these days!!!!

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Post by Danni on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 8:42

Welcomegroup Valley!!!

Yip the TTC road is really tough.. All the waiting :Wait drives you crazy, but there is hope for us!!! Has DH been tested as well??
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Post by Zee on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 8:52

Welcome Valley! Try to stay positive and believe that it will happen for you.
DH and I also tried for about a year and by the grace of God I am now 14 weeks preggies.
Dont give up, it will happen, just be patient!! Difficult I know!
TTC is very difficult and heart breaking but IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!
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Post by Zee on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 9:01

Oh, by the sounds of it, the closed cervix had A LOT to do with you not falling preggies so lets hope its a positive road to come.
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Post by Ilze on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 9:21

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Post by Mandri on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 10:07

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Post by Lameez on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 10:13

Welcome Valley. Never give up on your dreams this road is difficult but with the love and support on OPM you will get through it. I would suggest you see a fertility specialist, gynaes are wonderful but a fs is more experienced in this field. Good luck with the BFP love hope is comes this cycle.
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 10:35

Thank you ladies!!! Well, no DH havent tested, I think I am to scared to tell him to get tested. I dont want to hurt his feelings? Sad Angel2

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Post by Danni on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 10:49

ok dear... sometimes it's something small, like with us, I had a MC in Jan & after 3 mnths we decided to try again, and for 8 mnths nothing happened!!! Then when finally saw gynae he said I was not ovulating (problems with cycle) & the very 1st month I used the medicine he gave me & wa-la!

Have you tried using an OPK?? I don't want to sound like I'm a doctor or something, but have you also tried to elevate your hips after BD?? sometimes there are slow swimmers & they need help against gravity :Embarassed
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 10:55

LOL :Rofl:

Not really tried the elevating thing yet. And not really sure what OPK means? I must sound really dumb right now hay?? Bang head Are you pregnant Danni?

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Post by Danni on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:00

Hey Valley - no worries about all the abbreviations: look there is a sticky note that tells us what each one means, I was also a bit lost when I first came onto the scene :Rofl:

OPK is an ovulator predictor kit - like with Zee, she had a longer cycle and therefor she thought she ovulated later & it was not like that, after she had a lap she used the OPK to determine exactly when she was OV & it worked for her! Very Happy She did not OV when she thought she was supposed to & seems she kept missing it Rolling Eyes

& yes we are pregnant Smile was very weary, since we had the mc, but we have seen the heartbeat last week & hopefully & prayerfully this one will stay with us till August :Pray:
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:06

Thank you Danni. Thank you I will go buy a opk in the next cycle, because Im still waiting for AFwitch2 to come today? there is no signs, not even a little bit of pain?
Congratiolations with your baby. I will pray for you!!! Just keep faith and all will be well!!!
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:09

Welcome and I hope that you get the support that you need!

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Post by Danni on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:11

Thanks Valley!!!

The OPK is quite expensive, but I think it's worth it cos you can tell exactly which days you need to BD :Eggie:

So at least you know that you are 'doing it' at the right time :LOL!:

That is strange dear, but I see you've tested? Some ppl it only shows a week later hey :Wait
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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:21

Ha ha ha :Hilarious

It is strange. But I think the test I used, isnt too great, because they say that it is recomended that you test 5 days after the missed period? Maybe its a cheap test? But I cant wait, If the AFwitch2 doenst show by 5 o clock, I am going to buy that test at Clicks, they say it is very sensitive. :Wait

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Post by Guest on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:22

o sorry, did you do a HPT? :scratch:

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Post by Danni on Tue 13 Jan 2009 - 11:31

OK Valley, now that test does sound a bit coo-coos! Rolling Eyes

The ones that I have tested with always say the day your period is supposed to start... :study:

I think you should def go & get another test, YOU NEVER KNOW girlfriend!!

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Are you asking me if I did one dear? (HPT)???
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