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Post by thegreeffs on Thu 26 Aug 2010 - 18:47

This message is for Bella786, or anyone that can get me in contact with her, I know this forum is for those that are battling with infertility or trying to conceive. I am a gay married male, I have been married for three years now. Last year my husband and I tried to adopt, we either told that the the books for same sex couples were closed and that we have to check back in two years time or we were told that we will not be considered because of our sexual orientation.

Eloise at Procare told me that my best option would be to find a BM who is wanting to give her baby up for adoption, and who is willing to give the baby to us. We managed to find a BM, a 15 year old girl who was unable to care for her child. Unfortunately she gave birth in a state hospital and was forced to bond with the child.

A year later we have an older more muture lady, who has two kids of her own already who wants us to adopt her baby. I would like to find out by Bella786, which SW she used or if she used a Major Welfare Society. I too live in Cape Town, in the Northern Suburbs, and I would like to know how she managed to do it successfully.

Please if anyone can PM her for me, as I do not have enough posts to send a PM, and I dont want to be spamming the forum so that I can send a PM.

My name is Ian Greeff, she can contact me via OPM or via email, my email address is ianbgreeff@gmail.com

Thanks guys, I do love this forum.

P.S I was contacted last year by Jenny who runs the website www.adoptree.co.za she asked me if she could publish my email that I sent out to various childrens homes last year after the BM decided to keep her baby. The email can be viewed here http://www.adoptree.co.za/cms/?Stories:Ian_%26amp%3B_Cengey%27s_story
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Post by Kerryw on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 6:23

HI

Best of luck with your adoption. I am sure someone will know a good scocial worker in cape town.
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Post by thegreeffs on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 9:18

Thanks Kerry, I'm sure I will get the help I need from this forum.
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Post by Guest on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 9:58

Hi Ian

Sorry I can't help you. But I hope that you get in contact with the right people soon!

Good luck and ALL THE BEST!

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Post by michmac on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 10:51

Hi Ian, welcome to the forum. I have sent you an email with a social workers details in case you don't get in contact with Bella. Wishing you loads of luck with your adoption
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Post by Haze on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 11:12

Good luck, i really hope that you get to get your little bundle of joy (and sleepless nights Smile ) soon

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Post by thegreeffs on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 16:25

Thanks Michmac, I called the Social Worker this afternoon. Thanks to everyone else for your well wishes.
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Post by DJMommy on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 17:19

Hi there!

Bella hasnt been on the forum for ages, but I will send her a PM. Lets hope she responds!!

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Post by thegreeffs on Fri 27 Aug 2010 - 17:38

Thanks Eve, I would appreciate that.
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