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Post by sweetpea on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 7:46

Hi there,my story is nothing spectacular really.....except for the end result of course.Got married April 2004.I had been on the pill for a few years already.DH wanted to have kids & I was like no ways....I'm to young,I don't want to.we were also having problems & eventually seperated.I didn't want to hav a baby to try & fix things or even hav one & hav to raise it on my own.had him served with the divorce papers,but I never showed up at court.we started dating again & moved back in together.things were ok for a while & then we drifted apart again.we were just not on the same page,he didn't want to be around me-would rather work.that broke my heart cause I love attention.so when I didn't get the attention from him,I got it elsewhere(not proud of it...but it is what happened.last year January DH insisted I go off the pill.we were not in a good place in our marriage & I was so scared of falling pregnant.in June 2009 we both gave our lives to God & our marriage got back on track almost immediately...all ofa sudden we had respect for each other again & we were inlove as for the first time.September I was rather moody & Dh joked & told me to get a test. I did & it was neg.
End sept I went away on a church conference,the one daythey did private prayer requests & I asked to gav a closer relationship with God & my DH.the man praying for me asked me if I felt my Dh was 'the one' & I said yes.
In the next two weeks or so after I came back people kept on wanting to pray for me at church & I started to think... What the heck?my dogs became very protective & one girl kept saying how much I was glowing & I thought....omw....this is it!(we really had not been trying)I was panickingcause we were not really prepared financially as we are under debt review :s
asked DH if he would be ready & he was super excited & that he would run up and down the streets!!!bought the test that afternoon & when I got home I saw the two lines.had mixed emotions-went back the shop & did another test in the mall bathrooms....it was definately positive!!!!called DH & told him to start running up & down the streets...took a while for him to register what I had just told him.

I never really knew I wanted to be a mommy till I saw those 2 lines

God gave us the ultimate gift after He fixed our marriage!

Sorry I guess I had more to say than I thought...lol

to the ladies that are struggling...I can not ever know ur pain,but my heart goes out to each & every one of u & pray every nite that God will give u the desire of ur heart Smile

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Post by Guest on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 7:50

Oh wow. Thank you so much for sharing. And thank you for just opening my eyes in other ways. Thank you.

God is really amazing! And He has given you the desires of you heart. And you have the most precious gift, Madi!!!

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Post by SupaMum on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 8:08

What a lovely story! Amazing how you can think that you never want to be a mommy until you see those two lines !!!
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Post by DJMommy on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 8:09

Awesome story!!!! Thanks so much for sharing!

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Post by Kim on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 8:11

thanks for sharing ... God is awesome ...
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Post by Cutie Baby on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 8:17

Beautiful. So glad all worked out for your famlily Smiley
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Post by Robyn on Wed 11 Aug 2010 - 9:52

Nice story!
And a very happy ending!
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Post by Kgaladi on Sat 2 Oct 2010 - 4:24

Thanks for your happily ever after

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Post by Stacy on Thu 13 Jan 2011 - 8:35

Thanks for your story!!! Amazing how life can change!!! xxx
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