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Post by kleinkie on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 10:49

Hi there

I have discovered this website due to searhing about a procedure I will be going through tomorrow.

We went for our 1st scan (12 weeks) on Saturday (happy day!) only to find out that there was no development after 7 weeks. The sack is still growing, and I am still feeling all the effects of pregnancy.

Tomorrow they will be cleaning my uterus. I am still shocked and keep on wishing that I will wake up from this nightmare!

The gynie is hopefull that I will get pregnant again quite soon after this procedure, but the fear of going through this again is still there. I suffer from endimetriosis. So it was quite a nice surprise when I did get pregnant. Now we have to start all over again.

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Re: Newbie

Post by Lilly on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 10:56

Hi Kleinkie! Welcome to OPM! I am so very sorry to hear about your loss!!! BIG HUGS! xx
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Post by Adele on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 10:57

Hey there Kleinkie

Welcomegroup - You have come to the right place.

I'm sorry to hear and I really hope that everything will be sorted out and you get your BFP very soon.

Good luck for tomorrow...
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Post by Pumi on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 11:17

Hi there Klienkie
Welcome
Im so sorry about your loss and I hope and pray that you get a bfp soon.
Goodluck
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Re: Newbie

Post by B-Bat on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 11:23

Hi there All the best for your procedure tomorrow. Consoling

I hope that you'll find a second home in us here, I know it's done wonders for me being on OPM and even friends and family have commented (some even with out knowing about OPM)

I pray that you will get your BFP very soon and that all will go well for the 9 months following.
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Re: Newbie

Post by kleinkie on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 11:38

Hi all

Thanks for your messages. It helps to know that there are so many friendly and kind people who don't even know me, but still offers support.

Not everybody understands a loss like this! It's an emotional roller coaster.

I am quite scared about the procedure tomorrow, but I know that I am in good hands!

Thanks for all your support!

Thank you
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Post by TarrynT on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 11:41

So sorry Kleinkie!!!! Ive sent you a PM now.
Let me know if u need anything see.
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Post by Bane on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 12:08

ohhh girl, dont let it stress u much, if u were able to fall pregies u will b able to fall pregies again.. Hugs
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Post by DJMommy on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 12:15

Oh no. I am so sorry to hear about your awful news.

Welcome to the forum. You will get loads of support here from us.
Good luck for tommorrow!

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Post by Ilze on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 12:22

Welcomegroup So sorry for your loss, good luck for tomorrow.
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Post by Sheena on Tue 24 Nov 2009 - 12:28

Welcome... so sorry to hear your news. We will be thinking of you tomorrow and will be here to support you through whatever comes next!
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Post by Mandri on Wed 2 Dec 2009 - 10:48

Welcome I'm sorry for your loss!

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Post by EHT on Sat 5 Dec 2009 - 11:31

Welcomegroup
S sori for your loss.

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Re: Newbie

Post by kleinkie on Mon 7 Dec 2009 - 5:08

Hi All.


Thanks for all the messages. Procedure went well. Got my test results on Friday. I have a Protein S deficiency. Need to go back in Jan for another blood test. Your score should be between 60 - 140%, mine was only 16% = reason for no growth.

Still trying to gather info to really understands what it all means. But it's ok. At least now we know what / what is the culprit.
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Post by Adele on Mon 7 Dec 2009 - 5:21

Hopefully one of the ladies will maybe know what it means. Yes you are right, it's nice to at least find out now what is causing this!

Good luck Kleinkie!

Did you enjoy your birthday on Friday? Happy Belated Birthday!!

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D & C

Post by kleinkie on Thu 11 Mar 2010 - 19:06

Hi There

Just went for my 2nd D & C yesterday. Still don't know what went wrong this time.

I am not able to get pass the 6 week mark in a pregnancy. This time I was with a wonderfull doctor. We saw the heartbeat on 6 weeks and 3 days. Injected myself with Clexane every morning since 4 weeks, and still something went wrong. I started bleeding on Monday, went to see the doctor on Tuesday and by Wednesday it was all over again! Crying or Very sad

I need some advice urgently. I took my Centrum Materna, together with Ecotrin everyday + the Clexane 40mg injection.

I am turning 30 this year and really hoped that I could the experience the joy of motherhood before my birthday this year, but this won't be possible any more.

According to my doc I am the 2nd 1 in her career to not hold a pregnancy while taking the Clexane.

Is there any 1 out there who has had the same experience or could please give me some advice?
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Post by Ilze on Fri 12 Mar 2010 - 6:54

I'm so sorry you had to go through this again. Sorry I can't help you really I just know I must use some kind of injection when I fall pregnant again but so far I had no success in falling pregnant.

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Post by DJMommy on Fri 12 Mar 2010 - 11:00

Hi Kleinkie

I am so sorry you had another MC. Are you seeing a fertility specialist?

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Post by kleinkie on Fri 12 Mar 2010 - 11:27

Hi. Nope not seeing a fertility specialist.
Getting pregnant is not a problem. It's keeping the pregnancy that's not working.

The injection you use when you fall pregnant is called Clexane. You get different dossages. I was on the 40 mg.

I am seeing the doctor next week for a check up, then we will discuss our options.

You get so many advice from family and friends, but they don't really understand what you are going through. Some say that we must wait a few months this time before getting pregnant again, but I disagree. After a D & C your'e womb is clean. So I wait to hear what the doctor will suggest. :Wait
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Post by DJMommy on Fri 12 Mar 2010 - 11:31

Shame hun. Maybe you must post in the TTC lounge. More ladies will be able to help you there

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Post by Pumi on Fri 12 Mar 2010 - 12:11

Im so sorry you had to go through this for a second time.I hope and pray that dr will give you the reason for not keeping the pregnancies.
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